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[iansanityy]

Hhhhmmmm.... read your page regarding projections a few times...Still don't get it 

You said any projection comes back at us as karma...In what form exactly? As people projecting the same on to us?

If projecting love is harmful, wheres the difference between projecting love and feeling love? In my last relationship (long distance) I would look at her picture and feel love for her so I could feel close...was that "projecting"?

One last thing...If we blame others for our failures how exactly does it effect them?

[Mystress]

Hhhhmmmm.... read your page regarding projections a few times...Still don't get it 

If you are not sensitive to energy then it might not make sense to you.


You said any projection comes back at us as karma...In what form exactly? As people projecting the same on to us?

  The same or the opposite. Victim types attract predator types and co-dependent hero savior types. 

If projecting love is harmful, wheres the difference between projecting love and feeling love? In my last relationship (long distance) I would look at her picture and feel love for her so I could feel close...was that "projecting"?

  It is different if you are in a mutual love relationship, or that of a parent loving a child. The essay was written to address people who think that sending love to everyone is a good idea. Sending acceptance is better! If anything needs to be sent.
  The other thing is, you were focused in ward, on the love you felt in your own heart.  Feeling love is not the same as assuming someone needs your love because they are spiritually inferior in some way and imagining your love flowing to them.
  Love is what you are, it is natural to feel it, and it does not need an object, although most people find it easier at first,  to focus on what they love, outside of themselves to invoke the feeling of love within themselves.
  After a while, it is not necessary. 



One last thing...If we blame others for our failures how exactly does it effect them?

  The really important thing, is how it affects you. You give your power away to them and without it you end up becoming a failure anyway. It is self fulfilling.

   It puzzles me that people do not understand the basic value of personal integrity. 

  If you steal, you are telling the universe that you do not feel abundant  enough for honesty, not worthy, and the universe gives according to your beliefs.  It bites at your self esteem and your beliefs will be reflected back to you, in your life experience.  like you lose a little piece of yourself for every lie, every theft.